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The age factor: never too old to learn a new language!

So, if you’re a frequent reader of this blog, you know of my interest in German. I have been fascinated by the idea of learning it for years when I was a teenager, then at University I felt the urgency of picking it as second language, in a very “who says I can’t learn that” kind of way.
German is tough if you don’t pay attention to it a hundred per cent. Age, however, plays a big part in the learning process. It is said that after a certain age the efforts are tougher and tougher. New vocabulary never sticks to your mind, then come other problems, a thousand things to do, and learning a language as a hobby is just too demotivating for some.
I have been teaching English at a private school, where most students were over 40, 50, 60. I can tell the main problem was that of confidence, a part from the limits one has because of the age.
I think I’m still quite flexible in learning a new language, but I know that as time goes by, I’m going to eventually find the same problem. So, here are  my own self-imposed kind of generic tips to learning a foreign language in your adult years. Some basic rules which, I think, could be useful to others too:

  1. Let the new foreign language into your life gradually. You don’t want to impose something on yourself to which you are not completely ready and you acknowledge that. Grow the need of learning more about it, by surrounding yourself with it. How? Websites, short sentences (quotes might be useful), reading should probably be your first and major approach, listening must be introduced gradually.
  2. Get a high-school book which takes you into the culture of the foreign place whose language you’re studying. Accompany that with a grammar book, but once again let the language in gradually. Do not watch movies or tv-series in that language until you’re familiar with the main structures of sentences, grammar, etc… Same with books. You would spend most time checking words in the dictionary and would only obtain a counter-effect.
  3. When you’re ready, do watch films, listen to the radio, or read books. But use it yourself too! Write to someone in that language, find a penpal or an exchange partner who will help you in exchange of the same help in learning your native language. Experiment! Write short sentences, attempt at communication. Language is not only a passive means: you understand what others say, but you can say something too!
  4. Don’t be afraid of mistakes. I know every mistake could make you think “Oops, I knew it. I’m not made for this. I’m too old“. It is not true. You’d be amazed to see how many young people are just as much, if not more, demotivated by making mistakes. All you need is confidence. And I can tell you, every bit helps.
  5. Motivate yourself. As confidence is usually the powerforce of learning a new language, use that foreign language to increase your knowledge. Do I like soccer? Well, let’s read newspapers in German and see what German soccer teams are up to! Or, do I like books? I sure want to know what’s new in Literature in Germany. Perhaps some future worldwide bestseller which hasn’t been translated into English just yet! See?

Yes, it is true that when you’re older you are less flexible, therefore you are less open to change in communication. But that should not be an excuse, because it’s one thing to have a clear mind on what one’s limit are and try and act in order to jump the hurdle, and it’s another to just claim to have a hurdle and sit down without even trying to jump. Believe in yourself!

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17 Comments on “The age factor: never too old to learn a new language!

  1. GJ Scobie
    20 June, 2012

    I enjoyed this post. I regularly dabble with both Spanish and Polish but have never taken them to a proper level. I can read a bit, far better than I can speak and I think that’s usual. However, speaking is a challenge. You are right, other stuff just gets in the way but your post has again inspired me to see if I can find time to progress this on.

    • thebrightoldoak
      20 June, 2012

      Oh! So glad I inspired you! Same for me. I’ve got a good knowledge of Spanish which I seem to be losing :\
      Then I barely speak any German and French is already kind of lost in the past. I wish to bring all these languages back and perhaps imagine to study another one. I’ve tried to approach Portuguese, but I guess that’s too much stuff all at once. :)

  2. eatingthepages
    20 June, 2012

    Great post! I am also attempting to learn German, again, after 2 years high school, 2 years college to better communicate with my significant other whose parents only speak ten words of English. :-) I agree with you completely that you are never too old to learn a new language, and introducing it slow and in a comfortable environment is vital. And, yes, confidence is a big issue. I feel as though I can make small talk in German, but when the rubber meets the road, and various other factors enter in to the environment–a new social environment, etc.–my learning goes right out the window!

    • thebrightoldoak
      20 June, 2012

      Well, it’s always difficult to jump from theory to practice. You probably know the feeling. I know I do! I remember how difficult it was to be confident in what one has learnt. You always feel like you’re being judged, but once you remove that fear, it all goes well.
      I will soon introduce some German back again, as I’ve been wanting to bring it back for years now!!
      I only remember the basic words, which is a shame!
      Good luck on your learning process, and thanks for visiting my blog! ;)

  3. redbarcheta1
    20 June, 2012

    Vilen danke! Alles gutt! :) jajaja I love german too. Thank you for the advice. I will use every tip.

  4. anlena
    20 June, 2012

    There are obviously some factors that make learning a new language when you are older a bit more difficult however most people just use this as a excuse and never bother and, also, they don’t realize that learning a language takes time and effort. Once you accept all that and, as you wrote, are not afraid of making mistakes you will be capable of learning a new language.

    • thebrightoldoak
      21 June, 2012

      Exactly, Anlena. It’s all about envisioning what the biggest obstacles are. Most people just see the obstacles and decide to not even start! Not good!
      I also believe that despite the limits one can have, learning at a certain age can have a beneficial effect on the mind.

  5. Jessica Accardi
    21 June, 2012

    Don’t just read it, speak it. That is essential. Shyness can really kill an attempt (I learned that the hard way).

    • thebrightoldoak
      21 June, 2012

      Absolutely. Imbarassment is the most crucial obstacle to learning how to speak a language. Especially in the diversity of Germanic / Latin derived languages!

  6. 2SistersAnytownUSA
    22 June, 2012

    Ah the universe is sending me another message that I am ready to take your advice and practice my spanish. I want to know what soccer fans are saying on the sidelines of the pitch!

    • thebrightoldoak
      22 June, 2012

      Sounds like a plan! And Spanish is a great language which I wish I had more time to practise!

  7. Mountain Gypsy
    24 June, 2012

    What a stroke of luck that I came upon your blog/post! I am learning Italian, s l o w l y, but I’m not giving up. I have a trip planned in May 2013 to visit recently found relatives in a little citta’ in Southern Italy. There are many people I will be meeting, some speak Inglese, most not. So this is very important for me to learn as much as possible. A few are elderly and this will probably be the only time we will ever meet.One little thing I do that works for me is to put the Italian word for objects around my house on pieces of paper. I have papers taped everywhere!! But I know kitchen, bathroom, closet, stove etc….
    Also, I knew a woman once who was fluent in German and English. She had a little girl whom she only spoke German to. Her daughter is now fluent in both languages. What a gift to a child huh?

    • thebrightoldoak
      24 June, 2012

      Yes, it’s lucky to have someone speak to you in another language as you grow up bilingual and have the gift of knowing two languages!!

      I think it’s a great trick, that of having papers taped all around you. That way you’ll remember the vocabulary for sure. Do listen to radio & tv though cause I think it’s going to help a lot!

      If you need help on learning Italian, just ask. I happen to be Italiano. ;)

  8. abramkj
    25 June, 2012

    Great point about confidence! Yes, that plays a huge part. Thanks for this encouragement.

    • thebrightoldoak
      25 June, 2012

      You’re welcome! Yes, confidence is something you need when starting to learn another language. But I think one just has to realise that it’s perfectly normal to fail at a correct pronunciation at first. It’s with time and practice that one learns. With no mistakes, it’s hardly possible to learn a language!! ;)

      • abramkj
        25 June, 2012

        I think children have a lot to teach us in this sense, in how they acquire language! Lots of “mistakes” (although with kids it’s pretty cute).

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